Written by Ray Kate, Health Coach & Reiki Master, IFBB Pro, Certified Master Trainer

Photo by Lu

Discovering that deep-rooted emotions I had suppressed would resurface and demand attention during movement—feeling it in my body—I began to understand just how Holistic Health acknowledges the profound interconnectedness of the body, mind, and spirit. I had to learn to confront and work through these emotions, by prioritizing myself and physically moving my body every day. If I didn’t show up this way, it would negatively impact my mindset which I could feel manifest into physical symptoms, such as muscle tension, digestive issues, and sleep disturbances. Physical movement became not just a means to physical transformation, but primarily, a therapeutic tool for my overall well-being. 

I had been living in a state of disconnect as a defense mechanism for a long time—a cumulative effect of an unhealthy lifestyle that prevented me from truly being in tune with myself. Consequently, I experienced chronic fatigue, and lack of motivation, and I struggled with anxiety and depression. My emotional behavior was putting my body through so much stress that I eventually experienced physical burnout—a very real phenomenon. 

By prioritizing my physical health, navigating my mind and staying present with the process proved to be a challenging yet transformative journey. By doing so, I was able to unleash stagnant energy that held me back, and embrace the person I aspired to become. Regardless of the obstacles that came my way, I remained committed to my well-being, engaging in physical activities that not only strengthened my body but also built my mental endurance. It was a daily practice, but this consistency allowed me to cultivate a resilient mindset, one that instilled an abundance of confidence within me.


"Navigating the realm of my mind not only shaped my physical appearance but also sculpted the confident and resilient individual I longed to be."


My focus with fitness shifted from mere aesthetics to the powerful connection between my mind and body. Even through my bodybuilding career, the focus has always been on aligning my strength in body, mind, and spirit. It was no longer focused on simply the external appearance; it was all about how I felt from within, how I was transcending who I was through the process. Even on days that felt heavy, I persevered, pouring my heart and soul into every workout—no matter how much I didn’t want to show up at the gym. And I emerged stronger and more empowered on the other side.

But something else remarkable happened during this transformative process. As I propelled myself forward with an unwavering dedication, I witnessed a significant aesthetic transformation as well. The way I looked became intricately linked to how I felt about myself, creating a significant boost in my self-assurance. This newfound confidence radiated from within, uplifting every aspect of my life. It was cyclical.

By prioritizing my mental and emotional wellbeing, I had unlocked a deep sense of self-belief, allowing me to step into my true power. 

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